While shopping at Ikea I came across a dinner-ware line they have had for awhile, but saw it in a whole new light. It is there Fargrik Trolsk line which is plastic and dishwasher safe, but does have the draw back of not being microwave safe. It comes in a variety of colors, at least the bowls do, and has this wonderful mum design you can also get it in.
I have all white dishes with some blue sets peppered in here and there so these fit right in. I have loved using them for Jayna and rarely use the microwave for her food anyways. In-fact I really should pick up more of these plates and bowls for her so I can get rid of the ones I don't like. Ikea also has silverware for children that looks just like mommy and daddies. They were out of stock last time I was there, but I plan on picking some up next time.